Grumpier with Age? 🤬😜😁

Can I be the only one suffering from this?
There are moments when I’m as angst-ridden & angry as I ever was in my teenage years. Maybe even more so. Little things can irritate me. Sometimes a lot. Am I just mad about my own physical & mental decline? Or are the actions of those that irritate me justifiably irritating?

I’m so grumpy now that I’m restricted to back office work. I’m not allowed to engage with the public. My family? They pretend they don’t know me. Well … more than they did before. Even the dog goes next door for some friendly human interaction now. We do still have a dog, dear, eh!?!

What could possibly irritate me to this extent?

How about people on TV or on online channels!
I’m weary of interviewers who like to think they’re asking the tough questions. It’s worse when they turn a question to an expert guest into an endless ramble. To demonstrate their own expertise first, I guess. I’m a little exasperated with the talking heads on the financial & business channels too. Do they, or their guru guests, really know what comes next? When the commercial break finally rolls around, there is no respite. Because that’s when I get yelled at. With great & rapid intensity. Look, I’m not going to buy the gadget, the gimmick, not even the useful tool, nor the wonderful item of very special clothing, because you’re yelling at me. Please stop with the yelling!

These days we have politicians of all stripes & flavours who don’t seem to have an agreeable bone in their bodies. Is it just my ageing brain that thinks things were better in the good old days? Did more people float a little closer to the political center back then? And were we all just a little kinder to each other not too many years ago? I really don’t know any more. Perhaps it’s just my rose tinted rear view mirror.
Click!
Change that channel.

Finally, there are the commercials designed for us older people! You know the ones where the older actors have these silly smiles plastered across their faces. It comes across like the geriatric equivalent of mini movies based on dime store romance novels. But instead of love, they’re pitching mobility aids, insurance, diapers & drugs. Actually, sometimes they’re pitching love too! I’m glad the older actors are getting paid but really, are these commercials made by young marketing graduates or what?🙄

All of these things, and more, encourage me to mute & change channels way more than ever before.

Unfortunately, and for a while, I sought escape in social media. What a bad idea that was! Didn’t all our grandmothers tell us that everything was okay? But only in moderation. I forgot the last bit. My bad, eh!

On the bright side, I have found some useful alternatives to screen time. Or rather to certain screen content. I find scenery & nature channel screen savers, for example, a good alternative to much “real” programming. But that’s not enough. I’ve been forced to look elsewhere for engagement.
You’ll never guess what I found!

I’ve started reading more again. I’ve gone back to learning French. Again! I’m planning some trips to places I’ve seen on those screen saver channels. I even started an exercise program that will hopefully help keep me doing it all for a little longer. I’m reluctant to admit this, but I kinda like chatting with AI bots too. All of this is preferable to fuming at the other stuff.

I’m probably going to regret chatting up these AI bots eventually. But meantime, they have helped me find some good books to read. One pointed me toward a great French course that I’m quite enjoying. They helped me put together a simple calisthenics program. Although that’s as likely to kill me as help me. For the most part, the little bots are doing a decent job of encouraging me to do things that are probably better for me. Especially the one that’s encouraging me to go out more! It even suggested that I check out a new cafe that is soon to open. It is conveniently close to me. Maybe these things are kinda smart after all.
Or are they just sucking me into their web?
With some evil intent in their little digital minds for when I’m hooked?
I don’t know, but I’ll go with it for now.

Ironically, a lot of the new stuff I’ve engaged with is happening on screen too! LOL
I’m reading the recommended books on my phone.
I’m doing the French course on the phone & tablet. Here’s a little hack if you’re interested in language learning btw: the writing bit of the French course is way easier on a small screen because of the predictive text. Very conveniently, it has all the accents already attached to the right letters! 😂
I even cast my calisthenics graphic from the little screen to the TV screen for my exercise program.
And I download my AI produced spreadsheets, widgets & tools to my laptop so I can spend even more time at the screen. In my defence, it’s for real work that!

But I’d like to think that all of this new approach to screen time is time well spent. Better spent? Better spent screen time? Whatever, you know what I mean, eh!

Am I the only one going through this trauma?
Does it get better or worse over time?
Help me out here!

TGIF & enjoy your weekend!

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AI Personalities!

Bot Buddy!

AI can be fun, eh? These days I use AI to touch up & modify my photographs in seconds. Ideas for a two week itinerary around Nova Scotia? AI can help. Need a recipe for dinner tonight? These bots can come up with answers to all kinds of questions. Of course, we don’t always like their answers. But some bots seem open to a little steering on some subjects. Pushing back on an AI response can steer them a little more towards our way of thinking. If we’re just looking for a digital buddy to agree with us, that’s great. If we’re looking for real guidance or real solutions, however, that’s maybe not so great. I wouldn’t bet the farm, or my retirement, on any AI advice just yet. Despite that, they’re still very useful. And a lot of fun to play with. I found a new way to play with my favorite AI buddies last week!

I was trying to solve an extreme Sudoku puzzle. After resetting the puzzle for the 3rd time, I thought I’d stuff it into some AI chatbots for assistance. I’d probably have got it done on the next attempt myself (😜), but this was a good opportunity to see what my digital pals would do. This was a just-for-fun comparison. It was less about solving the puzzle & more about insight into the personality traits of the chatbots that, I guessed, might struggle with this. In no particular order, here’s what the results feel like. Notice how I’m going with feelings here, instead of science!

I tossed in an image of the puzzle into Gemini &, within seconds, it confidently returned the solution. Along with a list of the key steps used to solve the puzzle. Only it wasn’t the solution. There were a couple of errors. After 10 attempts, the puzzle remained unsolved. But as the conversation rolled along, Gemini came across as somewhat sheepish, a little embarrassed even. And it sounded so apologetic, that I was sure it had some Canadian emotional training under the hood.
Despite not getting to a solution, the experience was a bit like having coffee with a buddy that got it wrong. But you couldn’t help but love & admire the effort. Very pleasant to interact with.

Meta AI came back promptly with a solution too. But before I could point out that it was incorrect, it actually spotted the error itself & went back into problem solving mode. Same thing after the second incorrect solution was offered. Another couple of passes without a good solution had it come back to me with questions. Was it blaming me now for giving it a poor input!?!
I called it out & asked it it was giving up. It took umbrage at that & went back to work! LOL
Still couldn’t do it & it then suggested that the colours in the image might be distorting things. Rather than trust itself to figure out the numbers from the image, it wanted me to type in the numbers. With this enthusiastic bot, it’s tough to get a word in edgewise sometimes. I was too lazy to input the numbers it wanted, so that meant the puzzle wasn’t solved, but it was a reasonably friendly interaction. And another buddy I’d enjoy having a coffee with!

Grok talked some sciencey & solutions logic, while offering to help me with the steps necessary to solve the puzzle myself. When I asked it to go ahead & solve it for me, it began outputting solution after solution in an attempt to deliver the correct one. After several minutes of that, & dozens of grids, I gave up & shut it off. I love Grok from other interactions, but it’s hard to read any personality into this sudoku engagement. I deleted the chat in case the poor thing felt obliged to continue working on the problem in the background! Though afterwards I felt guilty that I didn’t check a few of the solutions along the way, I just assumed it knew it was getting it wrong, verifying that, & then trying again.

Deepseek had a go & got it wrong on the first pass too. Immediately proclaiming “Wait, that can’t be right”, before getting back to work to give it another try. It didn’t take long for it to get around to questioning the image quality. And whether I had provided all the necessary info. It got back to work after I confirmed it had all the available information. Then, almost in anticipation of another failure, it mentioned having to ignore colour & shading on my image. It subsequently got into telling me about the complexity, the logic, the use of pencils, & so on. Almost like it was entertaining me. while working away furiously in the background! After another failure, it asked me to confirm other details & it wanted me to do a little more work again. I had a feel for its personality by then, so I didn’t take the time for that. It was a nice, polite, & engaging interaction. Though not the jocular, back-slapping type, it is a friendly little bot & enjoyable to use.

Claude is another polite & friendly bot that tripped up with this puzzle. It went into a couple of autocorrect steps before quickly recognising it wasn’t going to solve the puzzle & it admitted that! Suggesting instead that I input the challenge to one of the dedicated AI sudoku solvers. In the real world, that’d be the right thing to do. If you don’t know the answer, say you don’t know, right? I can respect a bot that takes that approach too. I’ve just recently started using this one & I’m enjoying the interactions. It has a slightly different feel & I look forward to seeing how that plays out with other engagements.

Copilot came back with a friendly comment, but it couldn’t read the numbers & immediately asked me to input them. I like & use Copilot in many other ways, but this wasn’t what I wanted from the sudoku exercise so I abandoned that conversation. In general, Copilot has a friendly personality & I enjoy using it for a whole range of other activities & questions. It just didn’t work out with the sudoku image this time.

ChatGPT was the last one I tried. Unfortunately, I didn’t learn much about the bot’s personality from this interaction. Why? Because it took one quick look & returned the correct solution. Job done!
However, I know from other interactions that this is generally a nice, polite & friendly bot too. Though I haven’t done this, you can even adjust its personality traits in your profile settings inside ChatGPT. While this has no bearing on how good the other bots are at any other activities, ChatGPT is the winner of this little sudoku challenge. Using the image I chose to input. And there’s not much science to my comparison, I was more interested in seeing how they reacted in the event they couldn’t solve the puzzle! Regardless of the brevity of this interaction, I generally enjoy using ChatGPT.

Just for fun, I went back to some of the other bots & told them that ChapGPT solved the puzzle at the first attempt! LOL

Gemini started its response to that with an “Ouch!” & some self-deprecating comments. But it was glad I got the solution from another bot & gave props for their win. Canadian, eh! All in all, a very nice human-like reaction. Meta AI figured that the competition just “parsed the starting digits cleaner” & asked that I type out the numbers for it next time. It felt like this bot was just a little grumpier about the outcome. But it did apologise for wasting my time & finished the conversation with a rah-rah “Let’s get it right” statement for the next time. I had already deleted the Grok conversation, so it didn’t get to add anything extra on the competitor’s win. Deepseek maintained its polite & friendly stance & apologised again for not interpreting the image well enough to provide the solution. And it offered to cross check the ChatGPT solution if I wanted to share it. Claude came back all friendly & polite again, even offering to build me a sudoku solver artifact for next time! It also acknowledged that it could be worth sticking with ChatGPT if it’s working for me. Pretty magnanimous suggestion that, eh? Finally, I felt Copilot was just a little snarky. It’s opening response was “Fair enough” when I told it of the competition’s success. Or maybe I’m just sensitive! After some other polite remarks, it restated that if I ever want to solve one properly that I should enter the numbers in a grid. The italics was from Copilot! This isn’t my perception of Copilot based on other interactions. Can a bot have a bad day!?!

All these bots are great to work & play with. Solving a sudoku puzzle from an image was just a fun comparison. They have a far wider range of capabilities. Each bot will have its own unique characteristics. Some features & capabilities may require a paid subscription. But even the free versions are wonderful tools for entertainment &, with added caution & due diligence, problem solving. They are going to become an increasingly bigger part of our lives & any excuse for learning more about them is worthwhile. So what did I learn from this little exercise?

While it’s fun comparing & contrasting these bots with different questions & challenges, I’m still wary of trusting the answers. Despite the feelings I imagine I’m experiencing as I interact with them, even they don’t pretend to have all the answers. In fact, they frequently encourage us to check alternative sources to validate their answers & suggestions. The danger is that these bots can sound very confident when answering. And they feel so personable sometimes. Real people can copy & paste, or modify, these AI answers. They too then can sound awfully confident. An added caution for when we are reading posts like this on social media.

I wonder how different a retirement plan might look from each of these guys!?! Sorry, from these tools, I mean. Tools for sure, but I can’t help but think that I’ll be giving some of them names before too long! LOL

PS … except for a few words & phrases in quotation marks, all of the above was written by an error-prone human. With feelings! Given that, you might want to cross check the information even more carefully! 😉

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Important – this is not investing, tax or legal advice, it is for entertainment & conversation-provoking purposes only. Data may not be accurate. Check the current & historical data carefully at any company’s or provider’s website, particularly where a specific product, stock or fund is mentioned. Opinions are my own & I regularly get things wrong, so do your own due diligence & seek professional advice before investing your money.